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Am I Worth It???

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Form unknown to you became close and the best of friends. Started understanding each other in a way that no one would have been so understanding and in sync to your heart. You started treating the person in a best possible way and gave them a place in your heart, your life which you know you would not be able to give to anyone else. The person knows that well still kept testing you now and then. Finally accepted that you the most important person of their life after the family. Gave you hope and feeling that no one could ever take your place and they never want you to leave or go away from their life whatever happens. Suddenly after few days, he/ she says that someone else has become as important as you are whom he/she met long after you and they know that you and that person can never be friends and you had a fight with them which that third person started. Now the person close to you started avoiding you, lying to you, they even stopped calling or messaging you themselves. Always s...

From STRANGERS To BESTIES..

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Who are besties? In my view Besties are those on whom you can bet your life on, who understands you better than everyone even your parents, with whom you can share each and everything knowing that your secrets are safe with them. If you can say that this is the person for whom I can leave other’s, then that person can be your partner or your bestie. So what is the difference between, partner and bestie. Leaving a partner can be easier than leaving a bestie. People don’t become besties from the time they meet up for the first time. It takes time to transform from strangers to besties.  Love at first sight still exists but besties at first sight, NEVER. So, what all things are important or transform two people into besties? Is it money, force, you want to be besties so u become or something else. It is definitely something else, it’s not about how much money you spend on the person, it’s about how much time you spend with the person. You always want to be with your bestie at e...

Silence – Good, Bad or Hurting

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Silence!! What came to your mind as soon as you hear this word silence? Is it someone’s voice that you are missing or does that feel some one is ordering to be quite or may be some place, etc. Yes, this word is something that you can related to many things, it may be some place, person, order etc. Now everyone must be thinking this is some simple word with some deep meaning which we all never bothered to think much about. Technically, Silence is “ absence of sound ”. This Silence have great effect on our lives. It may be good; it may be bad or it may be hurtful. During meditation or stress, silence is considered good and is very helpful. When someone is doing the wrong thing, but you decide to keep silent; that time silence is bad. When you and your close one (parents, best friend, lover…) don’t talk to you or avoid you, that time silence hurts in the deepest way, breaking your heart. Why being silent can be good to us? Answer being sometimes answers are hiding in silence not ...

Discrimination - Highly Unacceptable

Recently, I read a blog and was really very depresses about the talks and the things the person considers about Muslims. The heading of the blog was “We must stop appeasing Muslims… for their own good of course”. I agree with the part saying “We must stop appeasing the Muslims”. But I really hate the view that person have in saying so. It is heart breaking that in this modern era people are having the view that some people should be abolished from everything just because they are not Hindu. As a Hindu definitely I don’t like that we are suppressed by the government rules, regulations and the way they empower other religions but I cannot deny the fact that other religions don’t have the rights. They should not be empowered with excess of freedom and support but neither should they we weaken by pulling away the rights that every citizen of India have. As a Citizen of India why Muslim’s are needed to be appeased by giving more rights and benefits. They should be treated th...

Mysterious Life

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LIFE!!! What to discuss about it? It have many different things to talk about and we can spend years talking about it. But today, I would like to share what I feel about the life, that I had lived, I am living and expect/ plan to live. A single line that I think describe the life in best way is: “LIFE is something that happens to you while you are making some other PLANS”. Today, while lying on the mattress kept in my terrace, watching the glimpse of the beautiful moon hiding behind the branches and leaves in the cold weather made me think. Our life is something like this only. The glimpse of the light coming from the moon is the goal or our dream. The branches of the trees are the obstructions which try to divert us from the path that reaches our goal. The leaves are those which indirectly effect our decisions. And the air is the situation or the time which is not in our hands. Whenever you think that you have figured out how to have a better glimpse of moon, air flows and t...

Sibling: A Companion

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What a sibling mean, his/ her importance can never be known in their presence. You feel that in their absence. As truly said “Importance of anything can be felt in its absence” completely comply with this. Relation between siblings is similar to the famous Cartoon – TOM & JERRY. You will always fight, make plans to make your sibling feel annoyed and do enjoy a lot when they fall in your trap. Even after all this you are not going to allow other’s to hurt your brother/ sister, you will always be there for them when he/ she needs you. That’s the beauty of this relationship. Let’s go into depth of beauty of this relation, explore and understand it. Let’s see from different perspective to understand it better. Only three possibilities are there in this relation namely, 1.        Brother – Brother 2.        Sister - Sister 3.        Brother – Sister Brother – Brother They, a...

Vicious Circle - Truth & Lie

Does any of you ever give it a thought that our life rotate around these two words - truth and lie? Are they permanent?? We can say only one of this, there is no space that we say truth and lie at the same time. Even if there is only one word of lie in the truth then the truth is a lie. First of all let’s see what truth really is? What I have noticed and found is that truth is not constant. For me if something is truth, then it may be lie. The reason is simple, either you don’t know the view or thing that I know or I don’t know the things you know. So, truth is nothing, it’s just the perspective or the knowledge that any person have regarding the matter. Still, after this information, I would like to contradict it here. Truth is something that is same for everyone on the condition that you have all the information about the thing. Lie…Its something which is not truth. No matter how good u manipulate the truth, someday you will not be able to manipulate it. This may be due to ...