Sibling: A Companion

What a sibling mean, his/ her importance can never be known in their presence. You feel that in their absence. As truly said “Importance of anything can be felt in its absence” completely comply with this. Relation between siblings is similar to the famous Cartoon – TOM & JERRY. You will always fight, make plans to make your sibling feel annoyed and do enjoy a lot when they fall in your trap. Even after all this you are not going to allow other’s to hurt your brother/ sister, you will always be there for them when he/ she needs you. That’s the beauty of this relationship.

Let’s go into depth of beauty of this relation, explore and understand it. Let’s see from different perspective to understand it better. Only three possibilities are there in this relation namely,
1.       Brother – Brother
2.       Sister - Sister
3.       Brother – Sister

Brother – Brother
They, always bully each other.  They are the trouble makers. If they fight, then it’s a problem for them and the family as well. If they are together, work as a team then its problem for others. They overcome every problem by hook or by crook. If brother’s are a bit emotional, then the closes ones (Mostly Mother, Father or Sister) can put an end to this problem at that moment.

Sister – Sister
They disturbs the house the most unlike brothers who usually fight outside the house. Economic Touch to this, if they are together expenses are very high. If they are separate, this expense decreases. If there’s a younger brother, then that brother is in trouble if there’s a fight between sisters. Only some diversion can put an end to this.


Sister- Brother
The most loving combination. In this case usually brother and sister loves each other. Brother is very protective for the sister and can often put up a fight with other passing comment or doing something wrong. When its case of sister then usually brother’s don’t think about things not related to sister. Once bonding is made, it need to be strong and never lasting.

So, I would suggest if you don’t have a sibling, and you understood the beauty of this relation and want to enjoy it then go and find a brother/sister. But remember you should feel that way for the person and should take necessary steps to keep the relation intact and the person on right track.

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