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Basics - Equity Market vs Equity Funds

As an investor, we are always confused about where to invest? What returns would we get? How much do we need to invest? Are we investing at right place? Should we consult an Adviser? If yes, then will he be giving us the right solution/ product? How much will he charge? Thus, to overcome all this we all start searching on internet, ask friends and start investing on our own without proper understanding of the product. We often see the past returns or listen to friends & relatives and start investing in that product without having the deeper understanding of the product. Among the top investment options that everyone suggests us are Equity Market (Share Market) and Equity Funds as they give good returns and the returns are tax free too if realized after a year. On hearing that, the first question that comes in our mind is which one is better? Now, that varies from person to person. Investing in Equity funds is less risky, doesn’t need must experience, less effort and less...

Lack of self-esteem in Children!!!

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These days whenever we open a newspaper, tune to news channel or checkout for top news around us; what we get to read?? Small children are taking the extreme steps like Running away from home, doing Suicide, Killing and more. Even when I want to think that may be the situation or the environment around them made them do this, I couldn’t stop thinking that from where do they get so much of courage or is it lack of self esteem that make them do these all unethical, immoral, illegal activities. Recently, I read in newspaper (mid-day, Mumbai, October 4,2016; Page 02) that a sandwich maker helped the police catch some robbers and just bellow that news was that a 16-year-old jumps of 6 th floor. And the mere reason was that she was scolded by her father. That’s is something that made me feel that its high time that parents realize that they should stop pampering their children like small babies all the time. People should really understand that they are not making their child strong, o...

Closeness - Can Hurt

We never know when we meet a person whom we adore and respect so much that we are ready to loose ourself for them.  We do whatever possible on this Earth to keep them happy without thinking of is it worth or is it just for a while. We do just to enjoy the moment we have and get maximum out of those moments. Sometimes we get so attached that we don't understand that we love them as a lover or are we loving them as a best friend.  For us they mean our smile, our life.  They and their happiness become more important than our own. Passing an hour without talking to them feels like something is killing us inside.  Just imagine with this type of bond there comes a day when you didn't got to hear from them for almost 2-3 days.  What will happen to you?? When the opposite person knows and feels same for us then how beautiful our life becomes. And when they are ready to accept it in front of anyone and show what you mean to them without caring who is watching, its ...

Am I Worth It???

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Form unknown to you became close and the best of friends. Started understanding each other in a way that no one would have been so understanding and in sync to your heart. You started treating the person in a best possible way and gave them a place in your heart, your life which you know you would not be able to give to anyone else. The person knows that well still kept testing you now and then. Finally accepted that you the most important person of their life after the family. Gave you hope and feeling that no one could ever take your place and they never want you to leave or go away from their life whatever happens. Suddenly after few days, he/ she says that someone else has become as important as you are whom he/she met long after you and they know that you and that person can never be friends and you had a fight with them which that third person started. Now the person close to you started avoiding you, lying to you, they even stopped calling or messaging you themselves. Always s...

From STRANGERS To BESTIES..

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Who are besties? In my view Besties are those on whom you can bet your life on, who understands you better than everyone even your parents, with whom you can share each and everything knowing that your secrets are safe with them. If you can say that this is the person for whom I can leave other’s, then that person can be your partner or your bestie. So what is the difference between, partner and bestie. Leaving a partner can be easier than leaving a bestie. People don’t become besties from the time they meet up for the first time. It takes time to transform from strangers to besties.  Love at first sight still exists but besties at first sight, NEVER. So, what all things are important or transform two people into besties? Is it money, force, you want to be besties so u become or something else. It is definitely something else, it’s not about how much money you spend on the person, it’s about how much time you spend with the person. You always want to be with your bestie at e...

Silence – Good, Bad or Hurting

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Silence!! What came to your mind as soon as you hear this word silence? Is it someone’s voice that you are missing or does that feel some one is ordering to be quite or may be some place, etc. Yes, this word is something that you can related to many things, it may be some place, person, order etc. Now everyone must be thinking this is some simple word with some deep meaning which we all never bothered to think much about. Technically, Silence is “ absence of sound ”. This Silence have great effect on our lives. It may be good; it may be bad or it may be hurtful. During meditation or stress, silence is considered good and is very helpful. When someone is doing the wrong thing, but you decide to keep silent; that time silence is bad. When you and your close one (parents, best friend, lover…) don’t talk to you or avoid you, that time silence hurts in the deepest way, breaking your heart. Why being silent can be good to us? Answer being sometimes answers are hiding in silence not ...

Discrimination - Highly Unacceptable

Recently, I read a blog and was really very depresses about the talks and the things the person considers about Muslims. The heading of the blog was “We must stop appeasing Muslims… for their own good of course”. I agree with the part saying “We must stop appeasing the Muslims”. But I really hate the view that person have in saying so. It is heart breaking that in this modern era people are having the view that some people should be abolished from everything just because they are not Hindu. As a Hindu definitely I don’t like that we are suppressed by the government rules, regulations and the way they empower other religions but I cannot deny the fact that other religions don’t have the rights. They should not be empowered with excess of freedom and support but neither should they we weaken by pulling away the rights that every citizen of India have. As a Citizen of India why Muslim’s are needed to be appeased by giving more rights and benefits. They should be treated th...