Closeness - Can Hurt

We never know when we meet a person whom we adore and respect so much that we are ready to loose ourself for them.  We do whatever possible on this Earth to keep them happy without thinking of is it worth or is it just for a while. We do just to enjoy the moment we have and get maximum out of those moments. Sometimes we get so attached that we don't understand that we love them as a lover or are we loving them as a best friend.  For us they mean our smile, our life.  They and their happiness become more important than our own. Passing an hour without talking to them feels like something is killing us inside.  Just imagine with this type of bond there comes a day when you didn't got to hear from them for almost 2-3 days.  What will happen to you??

When the opposite person knows and feels same for us then how beautiful our life becomes. And when they are ready to accept it in front of anyone and show what you mean to them without caring who is watching, its like we are in heaven and we don't want anything else except that relationship to remain intact like that.

But again life is not fair or generous, it will send the sad part with this happiness. Imagine that person lies to you, repeatedly even on knowing what you mean to them. Especially when they were the one who made and took a promise from you for never lying. How would you react?? Wouldn't you get mad and crazy??

Then assume a time comes when you know you have to move out of town for some days, that time the person gets crazy and emotional realizing how important you are for them. To keep them happy and intact you spend each and every possible minute with them. That emotion and the craze make you put everything including your life on stake for them. But when time comes that you are finally moving out of the city forever the same friend didn't bother to spend time with you, instead go out with some other people and the day when you are leaving, that time what you come to hear that they suddenly realized that they like some other person too much. Will it not tear you apart?

Even when they did everything crazy, you never left that person. But imagine that person leaves you for anyone who says or do things to give them fake happiness. For that fake happiness they forget what real happiness you gave to them and what you go through for that.

After going through everything, never ever leaving the person and not missing to fulfil all your promises, what happens?? The person leaves you for unsaid/crazy reasons. You can't blame them as you love them too much. Who you blame??  Yourself!! Why and for What?  We blame ourselves for not being able to keep the person interested in you and you can't do anything for that now. The person felt happy with other people, for whom they were ready to lie to you and break your trust, heart and hurt you badly. Its true that very few are there who to stay in you life till the end

Having SAME BESTIE in different PHASES of LIFE is much  better than having different BESTIES in different PHASES of life. 

Once again that person said that they love you a lot but can't show you, and they are sorry for that. Did they ever thought, before getting this apart they always used to show the emotions they have for you. For others they can lie to you, flunk you.. Can't they say true to others that they are with you. Doesn't it feels that they are ashamed of of accepting that they are with you. They never care how you are but they say they care for you. If by any chance you from your end ask them to come with you to doctor as you are not well, then they say someone from your other friends will take you. When some other friend of them gets ill, or act ill they go running with them and say humanity. DEAR FRIEND THAT'S NOT HUMANITY, THAT'S TELLING US THAT WE ARE LIKE CRAP IN YOUR LIFE AND WE DON'T MATTER FOR YOU. 

Dear so called friend, you have provided us exceptionally beautiful moments when you are alone with us in some place you know no one will come ( doesn't mean sex) or if some special occasion is there or when we were so close and you had same emotions as me. But when you can't accept in front of others that you are proud of our friendship then what do you think our reaction would be? When we are so important in your life and so close to you (as you say), then how can you stay a day without talking to us, instead of being one you were before (who wasn't able to spend an hour without talking to me). JUST THINK OVER IT. If we would have done something like that, what would have been your reaction.

FRIENDSHIP &  IMPORTANCE of someone is not shown only by words. Your ACTIONS should support your words to prove them true.. If someone is important, I can guarantee you that you will manage and get time for them anyhow, you will not give excuses. If you love someone your actions will show that, you will do whatever necessary to spend time with that person.. No lies, no hurting of their belief on you, you will take care of them as they are part of you, and if something happens to them your life will be affected a lot. You will never lie to others or hide that from others. You will always be proud and ready to tell anyone that this is the person important to me. You may say anything to him when you both are together, but in front of others no matter what you will stand for him/her and wouldn't say or accept bad words for them.

That's what besties and closest of people have between them.

Every RELATIONSHIP have ups and dows, those which OVERCOME these, stays for life..