Different Faces

LIFE!!! What to discuss about it? It have many different things to talk about and we can spend years talking about it. But today, I would like to share what I feel about the life, that I had lived, I am living and expect/ plan to live. A single line that I think describe the life in best way is: “LIFE is something that happens to you while you are making some other PLANS”. Today, while lying on the mattress kept in my terrace, watching the glimpse of the beautiful moon hiding behind the branches and leaves in the cold weather made me think. Our life is something like this only. The glimpse of the light coming from the moon is the goal or our dream. The branches of the trees are the obstructions which try to divert us from the path that reaches our goal. The leaves are those which indirectly effect our decisions. And the air is the situation or the time which is not in our hands. Whenever you think that you have figured out how to have a better glimpse of moon, air flows and t...

What a sibling mean, his/ her importance can never be known in their presence. You feel that in their absence. As truly said “Importance of anything can be felt in its absence” completely comply with this. Relation between siblings is similar to the famous Cartoon – TOM & JERRY. You will always fight, make plans to make your sibling feel annoyed and do enjoy a lot when they fall in your trap. Even after all this you are not going to allow other’s to hurt your brother/ sister, you will always be there for them when he/ she needs you. That’s the beauty of this relationship. Let’s go into depth of beauty of this relation, explore and understand it. Let’s see from different perspective to understand it better. Only three possibilities are there in this relation namely, 1.        Brother – Brother 2.        Sister - Sister 3.        Brother – Sister Brother – Brother They, a...

Does any of you ever give it a thought that our life rotate around these two words - truth and lie? Are they permanent?? We can say only one of this, there is no space that we say truth and lie at the same time. Even if there is only one word of lie in the truth then the truth is a lie. First of all let’s see what truth really is? What I have noticed and found is that truth is not constant. For me if something is truth, then it may be lie. The reason is simple, either you don’t know the view or thing that I know or I don’t know the things you know. So, truth is nothing, it’s just the perspective or the knowledge that any person have regarding the matter. Still, after this information, I would like to contradict it here. Truth is something that is same for everyone on the condition that you have all the information about the thing. Lie…Its something which is not truth. No matter how good u manipulate the truth, someday you will not be able to manipulate it. This may be due to ...

With my recent experience my view on relationship between Brother and Sister is totally changed. I always believed that the relation between brother and sister is the relation between hearts, the respect, the feeling of being siblings by Nature’s choice or by our own choice. But now I found it that it’s not the case always. Some people think that if we are becoming brother and sister by choice not due to some blood relation then the other person don’t have the right to express his/her views or have any right to say anything to the other person. This is simple because the other person is making you his/her sibling from pure heart and is abiding the glory of the relation, but you are thinking the person is not your sibling with respect to blood line, so he/she don’t have any right. You tell me, is it the nice,good thinking or the worse one? Is this really advisable to make someone your sibling if you are not having that feeling of relationship and if you are not able to abide by t...

It’s the most common state of mind in today’s World. From youngest, school going to the eldest, the retired (senior citizens) have this state of mind, commonly referred to as “ TENSION ”. So, here comes the question, is it good and useful for us or is it bad for the mind and health. The answer would be its good. But as the universal fact known by everyone of us, anything in excess is bad. This is applicable on our dear new friend tension too. Our friend Tension have a severe problem that he is not able to stay normal and low. He’s like an over drunken person who is high and gives the reaction which are not controlled by him. So, what happens when our friend tension comes to meet us? In starting we don’t give him much importance and hurt is ego. So, he start pressurizing us slowly and without us even knowing he over rule our thought and behaviour. This results in frustration and act as a food for our enemy turned friend “Mr. Tension”.   So, what are the results of him over rul...

The most commonly word used by everyone when they or someone else is not doing something which is visible/ physical or is pointless/useless for someone. But does that really mean that the person is idle? If not, then what really is idleness? It’s a word which is used to define many of those stuffs which other’s think is of no use. In simple words definition of idle means inactivity or not doing anything. Let’s look deep and know what really idle is. Our generation is commonly called as idle. Why? It is because we prefer to do what we want not that what others want. We have an attitude of giving our body the proper amount of rest and care. We don’t feel to take extra step for things which don’t need. But does that mean we are idle? Science have proved that our brain is never idle. Even when we sleep our brain keeps working, when we are just relaxing then also we are processing some thoughts. So we are not idle anyhow. Bad thoughts and good thoughts are something else There is a fa...

What comes into your mind when you hear the word “LOVE”? Most of us will think about the partner at an instant. But is it this only between two partners, is it not between anyone else?? As per our grandparent’s generation, love is only between partners or we can say lovers. But as per our generation, we take love as a feeling between people. What this things called as “love” really is?? It is nothing but the feeling generated in our heart for someone, thus helping us to have a strong bond with the person. That person can be a friend, fellow human being, parents, siblings, lovers and many more. This feeling gets very strong with the help of trust, beliefs, and understanding as time passes. Some of you may be thinking, is it stronger then friendship too? The answer would be that both have their own places in a person’s life. Love is there in friendship, but love is not friendship. Same case is all the way round. They are not substitute of each other. They are among the few different...

It is something I admire most and rely on. So, from first line I apologize if you feel that I am being biased. Before starting to talk about it, you are requested to think of at least one person whom you think is your best pal. What do you think make you feel so close to the person you call as your best pal? Is it the fun you had together or may be same tastes or is that you enjoy each other’s company.. Feel the Depth of Friendship I would say in you can define a reason that why you are besties, then you are not close enough. Friendship is a relation that cannot be defined. Friendship is collaborative, it means that each and every relation can be found in friendship. You just name it mother’s care, father’s guidance, sibling’s mischievous activities, lover’s love… you may keep thinking and adding the relation’s to the list, it’s never ending. But for sure there are rules in this relationship as well.. What I feel is not the thing that I want to you to feel. But as per my pa...

The first and the foremost Question that comes in to my mind is … What really is “Happiness”? Is the thing or the result or is it something which only rich can have or is it the small things we experience daily!! In this very world, everyone work for the sake of happiness, thinking that it’s the only goal in life. But what happiness really is? Did you ever thought about it. Is it achieving what you feel, will be providing you the happiness; or is it the result of the completion of task? Everyone has a different definition of happiness. Precisely according to my study, what I felt was that people think happiness is the completion of work, achieving goals, making fun of others, being popular and many more. Everyone is mainly concentrated on the final product of their hard work. But is that the only stuff in the world that provide happiness? Is the surrounding not involved in our endeavor of happiness!! So why should the happiness be connected or I would say why the happiness shou...